Ask yourself: the healthcare community always teaches: ‘do not get involved in the patients’ personal life. You are here to help them with the situation at hand. Do not ask about other situations, since that is not what they are asking.’ No wonder many patients are not healing, physicians are working to ‘fix’ them, to change the outcomes, to remedy the situation presented in front of them. Ahhh, but is that always what we are asking them when we go into their office? A pain in the head may start as a headache medication, then later an MRI to rule…