Holiday vacation: You open the door to stay at a family member’s home and it doesn’t feel right, now what? You talk with your family and just can’t wait to have the Norman Rockwell kind of holiday with your kids. Either you are replaying a past memory or trying to create a memory of something you dreamed about and never had. This should be a piece of cake and so much fun for everyone, right? Ah, don’t rain on my parade you say? Who? Not me! You open the door to where you are staying and all of a sudden…