Pain Pt 3: Now what, is it the end, how did I get here, HELP!

Dead End; Now What

Click, now in cuffs and straps and drugs and shots

Now drugged out and locked up

How do you come back from here, the prison and illusion of the life you are leading?  How did you get there from you?

Why can no one fix pain where does it come from how did I/we get there is it an illusion, a game, a sick joke, a black hole, a pain in the ass, or a life taker.

Now classified as risk to self, multiple drugs, multiple diagnoses, out of touch with life, slippery slope.

What can you do, how can you step off or out of here, what are the risks and what are the benefits?

Are you a harm to yourself and others.

Is this the end and you wish to just drop to the ground right now?

We hear so many things about people who have found the magic in therapies and treatments and we so desperately want to have that, the day with no pain. Money is running low, insurance company benefits are maxed out, and family and friends have given up.

It’s your diet, you are all toxic, just get the poison out.

It’s your exercise; you just do not move around enough and ruminate.

It’s your body; it must have a physical thing wrong, let us find it.

It’s your mind, we will find it, tell me about it.

It’s your social status, why do you feel less than.

It’s your childhood, so who did you wrong.

It’s your work, why do you not perform at your best.

It’s your relationships, what is your conflict.

It’s your family, why do you feel that it is not perfect.

It’s your outlook on life; you are always gloomy, think positive.

It’s your friends; an ass hangs around with asses.

It’s your education, you just were never taught better.

It’s your habits, you are lazy.

It’s your free time, you roam and find trouble.

Its low self-esteem, get over it.

Its lack of self-confidence, what the heck.

Its poverty, you will never get any better.

It’s your dreams, they are too big.

It’s your faults, they just keep getting bigger.

You need to meditate, drink water, eat organic, think great thoughts, get rid of the black dust around you, change all your peeps, change your job, change your relationships, make more money, go to school, fix the wrongs, release your past, forgive and forget.

How do you get out?

So, I will ask you the question, how did you get there? If you answer with a litany of things people have told you, labels you have collected, issues you believe are doing it to you, or crap that has been handed down to you; congratulations! You are at least looking at the path you are on. Once you have the guts to look at the years behind you and the details of your current status, you are one up on raising your hand and saying ‘I am tired of this process’. Now, let’s get to the point.

The point ‘I am over this process; I am done with the way it was, I am sick of doing things this way’! Perfect, now sit. Sit with the moment.  Sit some more with the moment.  Sit with the feelings.  Sit with the emotions.  Sit with yourself.

The first step:

Identify where you are. Next, define the path and process of where you are.  Is there a way out when there is nowhere to go?  Is there a better way when we throw darts at the place we are in?  Can you find something or someone else when the journey you may be wishing for is away from “you”?

What if we take a journey to you, accept the being you are and create a path of integration for healing and care of your body, mind and spirit; might that sound interesting to you?

You can’t find it in a bottle, a weekend, a seminar, a person, I am sorry to say.  However, you can find it in you with guidance.

Ready to start the process? Send me an email and schedule a time to begin your journey.

Be blessed and much love to you my friend,

Dr. Jeanette